If you don't have a sense of humor, GET ONE before you continue reading this book.
We know you're anxious to dive into "the good stuff," but there are probably a few things we should go over first. This will only take a minute:
1. More than any earth-shattering physical technique, the most important thing you can give your partner in the bedroom is respect. Nothing does more to create a sense of trust, security and, ultimately, an environment where they feel comfortable enough to try new things. If there's something in this book that you want to try, but your partner doesn't, respect their wishes. Guilt trips will get you nowhere. Also, when your partner feels they've been treated with respect, they're much more likely to honor your request sometime in the future. Be patient and everybody wins.
2. These techniques are meant to serve as guides. Use your imagination to come up with your own variations. There is no "right" or "wrong" way to do anything when it comes to matters of personal preference.
3. Always remember to show your partner you love them outside the bedroom. While sex is best with someone you love, it should never become the only time you express it. Showing love for your partner in non-sexual ways takes a great deal of the pressure off your intimate encounters and allows you both to relax, let down your guard and have FUN. And that's exactly what this book is all about!
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