The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

Summary: Required Reading For All Couples
Rating: 5
So I was serious when I meant that the Ethical Slut should be required reading for all couples. Not that I think that polyamory or ethical sluthood is for everyone. In fact- let's be honest, it's not. But the chapters on communication and jealousy are amongst the best ever written. The message is clear- you have to own your own happiness and emotions, and be able to clearly communicate your needs with your partner, while at the same time respecting their needs and boundaries. These skills form the foundation of any relationship, but are paramount if you chose to push the boundaries and venture into ethical sluthood.
Summary: "We have yet to meet a dildo that got hung up on it's own needs"
Rating: 5
This is a fabulous book. I have been interested for a while about non-monogamy and this book helped me through some of my fears with unlearning things that have been beat into me with a monogamy-bound society. I am much like a man when it comes to sex, and there are very few things that hold me back from getting what I want. I think we all have a lot of love to give. And really…who wouldn't want to give and receive more love??
With the theory of: "you don't have to depend on any one person to fulfill your desires" (pg. 156), a whole world of possibility has opened for me. I feel encouraged to love now so more than ever. I am open to a lot more of myself than I have ever been, and it feels good. Really good.