Reading Her Body – Top 10 Sex Signals Every Woman Sends When She Wants Me

How much time, money and energy have you wasted hitting on a girl only to be shot down? Does this happen to you over and over again? Maybe you even thought you had a great conversation going and then all of sudden it’s like someone just flipped a switch and suddenly she’s no longer interested…shot down….again… Yeah, I know… It used to happen to me too…all the time.

I’d wonder what I said and what I did. It crushed my self confidence and eventually I got to the point where I just hated going out to try to meet girls.
I’d never know what to say, how to act, and sometimes I’d get shot down even before I got close enough to buy her a drink, and try out some of my “great pick up lines”.
“It’s Clear She Wants You…Did You Miss THE Signal?”
Let me tell you a little story…
One day I was hanging out with my old college room mate, Jon, and we were talking over a beer at one of the local bars.
It was happy hour and the bar was packed. Girls were everywhere.
The thing was, I didn’t care. I’d given up trying to meet anyone and Jon had a great girlfriend, so he wasn’t there to check out the women.
As we sat there talking he interrupted me and said,
“Chris, that girl at the bar totally wants you…”
“Right, there’s no chance of that ever happening” I told him.
“No seriously, she’s been looking at you since we walked in the door. Now she’s looking at you over her menu trying to get your attention. If you don’t go over there you’re a fool”
I wasn’t buying what he was selling. There was absolutely no way she wanted anything to do with me. But Jon kept pushing me.
“Look, I’ll give you $50 if you go over there and she shoots you down. I bet you can get her number without even trying…”
“Deal!”
10 minutes later I came back with her number and a huge grin on my face.
I was amazed at how Jon somehow knew she was interested in me and I had to ask how he spotted the signs and I couldn’t.
“Her Body Was Telling Me Everything, You Just Have to Know What to Look For”
“So, do you know her? Is this some sort of setup?” I asked him.
Jon told me that it was simple…her body was telling him everything he needed to know, I just needed to know what to look for…
“From the minute we walked in the door there were 3 girls that were checking you out, but you didn’t notice any of them, and they lost interest. But that girl was determined, if you know how to decode the signals she’s sending out, you’re set.”
He had my interest and I had to ask how he knew…
I had completely forgotten that he had spent the last several years working in courtrooms next to talented people that picked jurors and he also worked with criminal profilers who’s job it was to read people’s body language.
He had definitely learned a thing or two.
But it went way beyond that. Apparently Jon had been spending a lot of time since we were roommates learning everything there was to know about body language.
“Forget Pickup Lines, It’s Easy to Meet Women When You Know Which Women Want You”
That’s right.
Just like Jon showed me, it’s not about using some cheesy pick up line.
In fact, you never, ever need a pickup line when you know which women want you. Meeting women is as simple as just introducing yourself.
Most communication is non-verbal. That means that no matter what a person is saying, their body language may tell a completely different story. And if you know what you’re looking for you know exactly what someone is saying without them ever saying a word.
…and woman send and can read body language much better than men. It’s a known fact.
The problem is, 95% of men have no idea how to read women’s bodies and miss the important signs that they are sending them.
“Most Men Hit On the Wrong Women”
Most men think it’s them who are doing the choosing. They think they are in the driver’s seat! But this isn’t so; Not at all.
“Hey Man, she’s checking you out… she wants you” and that’s usually followed up by the guy dropping some stupid line on the girl and ruining everything.
In most cases men just luck out by catching an obvious sign, then stumble through their pickup lines.
“Most men hit on the wrong woman.” Jon told me.
“They pick the most attractive, most unobtainable and likely most uninterested woman and try to make a move.”
The truth is, 9 times out of 10, men spend the night buying drink after drink and wasting time on women that just aren’t interested.
Jon and I sat back and we began watching everyone in the bar.
In less than 15 minutes, Jon was able to explain to me what to look for. It was like I had just become fluent in some other language.
Everywhere I looked, I saw the signs, and I saw plenty of guys missing them too.
“You Have To Understand the Attraction Process
or Else…”
The fact is that woman initiate 90% of the “Mating Dance” by sending out little flirtatious signals, but it’s done in such a way that most men actually think they are the ones taking charge.
The process of attraction is very simple.